Families Like Ours

A storytelling event for the Helena community

May 8th, 2026

Doors 6:30 pm | Event 7:30 pm

Myrna Loy

Families Like Ours

The Early Childhood Collaborative and the Helena Village Collective, along with many community partners want to create space for parents to share their real stories. Parenting is messy, complicated, and sometimes overwhelming—but no one should have to go through it alone. By telling our stories, we remind one another that struggle is normal, connection is possible, and our community cares deeply about giving children the best start in life. We believe the best way to raise healthy, thriving children is to also nurture healthy, connected parents.

The evening may include moments that are deeply meaningful, and at times, emotionally heavy for some. We encourage everyone to take care of themselves and know you are always welcome to step out for a moment if needed. Whether you arrive with a friend or on your own, you are not alone here and we hope this space offers connection, support, and a sense of belonging.

Our Storytellers

Jessie Obrecht

Jessie is a local non-profit professional, wife, and mother who has been deeply shaped by her experiences of infant loss and infertility. In her free time, Jessie can be found hiking, getting lost in a good book, or planning her family's next great road trip.   By sharing her story she hopes to offer a sense of community to others, ensuring no one has to walk through these seasons alone.

Kim Lloyd

Kim moved to Helena in 2008 from Minnesconsin (a region straddling the St. Croix and Mississippi rivers along the Minnesota/Wisconsin border) - intending to only stay a year. Seventeen years later, she's still here, thanks to the trails, the community, and a series of life choices - a husband, a house, finding a great job, and finding a great kid. 

The story didn't totally go as planned. After a long road of trying to grow their family, Kim and her husband ventured down the foster care path. Kim works for St. Peter's Health teaching nutrition and agriculture education in the schools. In her fleeting free time she enjoys organizing her brain by running the South Hills trails. Her aging black lab Willow often tags along and sometimes on her heels is our summer surprise kitten, Zip.

Samantha DeWit

Samantha DeWit is a mother of six in a blended family, raising kids without nearby relatives and without the safety net most people assume exists. She is also the Director of Operations at The Original Montana Club and the Membership Manager at Montana Free Press. In her Families Like Ours talk, she takes listeners into the quiet, late-night moments of working motherhood, where the house finally sleeps but her body still can’t. She explores what happens when old survival instincts collide with parenting, how anger and love can sit side by side, and why “just ask for help” isn’t simple when you’ve spent a lifetime learning not to need.

Her story moves from isolation to connection, and from doing it all to letting herself be held. It’s honest, specific, and built for anyone who has ever felt underwater, judged, or alone in the work of loving their family.